Everyone has to face a decision he or she doesn't want to face at some point and time in their lives. Whether it's which bill will get paid or how should I tell someone to back off? Whatever the issue, remember your decision not only affects the current, but the future.
You can say forgive and forget all you want until your face turns blue, but you know you won't. You're going to hold a grudge all day until you're really fed up with holding the grudge. So how can you say you're a forgiving person when you hold a grudge?
How many decisions will it take for people to be more accepting of the things they cannot change and change what is changable? You can't change the decisions made in the past, but you can make a choice to do the right thing. Decide on what you know is morally true. Live for yourself because you have to live your life for you; no one else. As far as the past go, leave it where it is because nine times out of ten, no one wants to hear over and over and over again about your past. You've decided your fate and other around you affected by your decisions. If you've put your past out there once, once should be enough. Let others decide if they want to continue on dealing with the decision you made in your life. Why? Because if they really loved you, then they'd support your decisions...period. Catch my drift?
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